There is no shame in finding someone else to be attractive, or good company. Even if they don't like you, there is no shame. If you happen to be fond of people, and they're not fond of you, it's OK. You don't have to have them like you first. You don't have to wait to see if they'll love you back! You can announce it - say, "Hey! I think you're a fantastic person. Regardless of what you think about me, that's how I feel about you.".
Andrew Matthew, "Making Friends"